Relationship Advice | A Contrarian Guide | Full Length HD

Posted on 19 December 2011 by Admin

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……………………………………………………………………………………………… Never miss a video the21convention.com ……………………………………………………………………………………………… Speaker Bio: Name: “Sock”- shorten childhood nickname for Socrates, which is my birth name that I later had changed due to societal and peer pressures. My parents first met during a literature course in college and fell in love reading a play by Socrates… somewhere they thought it would be terribly romantic if they got married and named their first son Socrates… They did and the rest is my history… …or so the story goes… Six years ago I found the men’s community in the emerging blogosphere, in search of not only trying to save an unhealthy and failing relationship, but in desperate search to find myself and reconnect to a society of men where I had previously always excelled and realized myself. It was something that I had lost touch of and was dearly lacking. It was the first tangible step in changing my life by re-taking control and authorship of it. I found and discovered many, many things in the community… about myself, my life, my ideals and my values. I found and made friendships that I hold dear to this day. It more than anything for me was a culture that fostered and nurtured acts of self discovery, analysis and ability to be naked and raw with my honesty, as expressed to myself and others. It was

All the different types of relationships give us the opportunity for personal development. The suggestion of Karma in a relationship is not a pleasurable thought, no matter how it is manifesting in one’s life; but powerful relationships, whether good or bad, almost certainly have a Karmic underlay to them. In a Karmic relationship, the lessons that we have to learn from each other can be as varied as life itself. One may be certain however, that the lesson will be deep, personal and will demand inner strength. When we experience the Karma involved in a relationship, we tend to find ourselves feeling without control over the circumstances and events, and at a loss of how to act and react to those situations. It is our belief, that while all Soulmate connections are Karmic, but not all Karmic relationships involve Soulmates. As a general rule, the Karmic model is only completely understood with clarity, AFTER the lesson is learned. Karmic relationships are valuable gifts that can facilitate us on our spiritual journey. This can only occur however, if we’re ready to let go of the Ego. So don’t dread that all Karmic love relationships have to be demanding and complicated. As we choose to be more mindful, we can transform negative patterns by choosing more conscious and loving behaviors. We can convert Karma into Dharma though the alchemy of our desires into our Intentions. Humanity Healing is sharing a series of free classes and workshops on Karmic and other types of Soul

Comments (36)

  1. Dleerium says:

    Video is too underrated. Probably one of the most important video’s I have watched on youtube to date. Thank’s to Sock and Anthony

  2. ashwinisidhu says:

    The best relationship advice I have received, which is fine tuned for men.

  3. ashwinisidhu says:

    the best relationship advice I have received that is fine tuned for men.

  4. Seantorky3 says:

    “tell me about your relationship with your father” if she says good, move on. thats quagmire in family guy. gigidy gigidy

  5. stillonparolee says:

    When you look into the community you see a bunch of nerds who learned pickup and now they are making up for loss time. There is no balance or stability. They still live a life that values the opinions of others more than their own, trying to be alpha to others instead of “doing you”. No reflection on Soc, one of the people i admire.

  6. stillonparolee says:

    That is a hard speech to beat. A message everyone needs to heard, especially the pick up community.

  7. OkinBNiko says:

    Excellent speech, the importance of being able to make healthy life choices and at time facing the harsh reality is a lesson that everyone must learn. Being able to resolve issues between one another and learning to cool off and rationally think as well as decide is a skill that the will saturate and influence your life and relationships with mutual and healthy relationships

  8. ChicagoFusion says:

    Brilliant, high-value talk. Bravo.

  9. RedemptionsScar says:

    Very nice talk… very emotionally intelligent guy, and most of what he says is practical and correct. I absolutely wish he’d invest in a synonym for ‘Aspect’ since if we count up aspects of this Talk we’ve got a pizza for thousands of people. ^_^

  10. TaylorAnimator says:

    Great talk. I think this is an area that needs to be discussed more. I worry the community will end up making a lot of lonely old men, because the didn’t learn how to handle a relationship or were made to believe relationships are a bad idea.

  11. Shikari21 says:

    great talk 

  12. jorj119 says:

    beautiful!

  13. firebird731137 says:

    The meaning of relationships is not “happily ever after” it is to learn. If both people are learning and teaching, then there is balance. As long as the balance is not broken, there will be fulfillment.

  14. HawkReborn says:

    I recently just got over a Karmic Relationship. It was a very difficult 3 month journey. I learned so much about myself that I didn’t know. I am glad this video was sent right now, so I can gain a deeper understanding.

  15. IdaSputum says:

    bigger writing for all captions would help. Thanks for your efforts.

  16. marcdruten says:

    Love=MagicK :-)

  17. MySecretJourney says:

    @mordsith05 Dharma is the good deeds. I just did one enlightening you.:)

  18. randob30 says:

    Great very enlightening

  19. mordsith05 says:

    I love this! But i dont understand what Dharma is. Can someone enlighten me please?

  20. 4Uand4USa says:

    Great !!! Thank youuuu

  21. TheEvenOrder says:

    Thank you for the insight you have shared and may your journeys be blissful.

  22. lightoffoot says:

    love it x

  23. TheDakiniGoddess says:

    Makes PERFECT sense….x

  24. redenex says:

    so meaningful for me at this point of time, thank you.

  25. rafestoneman says:

    Quite a good presentation. Thanks.

  26. angelbritney says:

    thank u!

  27. CosmicSchemeofThings says:

    LOVE the Artwork!!!!

  28. deevinewizzdumb says:

    wow…. amazing.

  29. flashtimm says:

    “we Are All in this Together As One…
    We lift One Another up & We Light up at Our Appointed Times…”
    “Rock On!”
    Love Always & Forever,
    L.A.A.F.
    Pat Timmermans…Purveyor of “Endless Possibilities!”

  30. HolyDefender78 says:

    You probably dont posses what it take to understand the true meaning of this but…Just try we never know

  31. PowderSpirit3 says:

    i am so humbled thankYOU

  32. Shinasstar says:

    i vote 5….great vid..

  33. Laminhina says:

    This is extremely stunning!!
    Thanks for posting
    5*
    Hina

  34. rosa37 says:

    namast’e

  35. bluehendra says:

    simply beautiful and true!

  36. LullyLouz says:

    absolutely 5*

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