Q&A: How much dependence and independence is necessary in a relationship?

Posted on 13 March 2013 by Admin

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Question by SHIVA: How much dependence and independence is necessary in a relationship?
sometime relationship looks like you are pampered and sometime it looks like you are trapped in relationship….where to draw the line which can make every body easy to have their own space.

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Answer by Xtiana X
i wanna know the answer of this too

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Comments (8)

  1. themaggs1 says:

    Each individual relationship is different because people are different. Do what feels most comfortable for you. Personally I like my space and alone time. I wouldn’t feel comfortable in a relationship where someone needed me to be with them all the time. I also enjoy spending time with someone special. Guess it is just a balancing act. I would make sure to keep the lines of communication open and be honest. If you need some space let the other person know. It is important to spend time alone or with other people. There isn’t any one person in this world that can make some elses life complete, we need different people in our lives. If your with someone who needs more that what you are willing to give, maybe you shouldn’t be in the relationship.

  2. akhil says:

    Its depand on relationship ji, actually ji question is big which relation you want to say……….if you want a correct answer, you must define it properly…….

  3. CaptAnil says:

    It all depends on the level of trust and understanding between relationships ! There are days when you need pampering and there are days you need to be alone . The Right partner gets the hints 🙂

  4. naughty says:

    Interdependency is the rule in relationship.

  5. josyul026 says:

    One should have independent in a family,Relationship should be give and take and both to understand each other then only relationships will survive.

  6. Jasmine says:

    Try not to have any dependence in a relationship mentally or physically. As more you are dependent then there are more chances of hurt, because you always will tend to expect from other person and all the time it is not possible to have wish fulfilled. Dependence makes you weaker human being, if possible try to avoid it.

  7. Narkhed says:

    As much required & varies at times, but depends on the persons involved & their way of thinking. I think without depending you can’t enjoy a relationship & with independence you don’t have that feelings of a relationship. I don’t think we should draw a line which means restriction & we can’t do some things out of that & which will be a meaningless relation. Of course, everybody needs space, but sometimes have to sacrifice for the other person which is most essential for a good relationship. Dependence & independence are the main things in a relationship & we can’t restrict ourselves.

  8. mitesh s says:

    All relations are only dependancy. Beyond relations one is independent.
    Relation is unwritten agreement and with conditions and expectations etc.

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