Question by sarama: What does mixing up love with friendship mean?
So I was talking to a mutual friend tonight about how I was told by a guy that he loved me and there was too much past… (mind you we never dated). She advised me to not mix up love with friendship. How am I to take that? waht does it mean?
Someone’s answer:
Answer by Waterdragon
it means they dont have a clue —- if you cant be friends with the person you love then its not going to work —- i shake my head in amazement —- she really has no idea about love and relationships —- ideally the person you marry will be your best friend (you are going to be together the rest of your lives) as well as your lover
What do you think? Your comment is most welcomed!
Meaning don’t consider going out with friend’s. It’ll just make thing’s akward for you too when you brake up. Keep a friendship with a friend. If you don’t then it’ll never be the same between you too. It’s never a good idea to date your guy friend.
Mixing friendship and love is a trick thing and one that should not be entered into lightly. If the love ends so will the friendship. You will want to determine your level of risk and if you can see your life without this person as a friend. If the answer is you could live with that then its ok to tread into the love category.